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‘Modern Love Podcast’: Andrew Garfield Wants to Crack Open Your Heart

‘Modern Love Podcast’: Andrew Garfield Wants to Crack Open Your Heart

The New York Times
2025/12/24
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Hosted by Anna Martin

Produced by Reva GoldbergEmily LangDavis LandAmy PearlSara Curtis and Elisa Gutierrez

Edited by Jen Poyant and Lynn Levy

Engineered by Daniel Ramirez

Original music by Dan PowellAman Sahota and Diane Wong

‘The problem is you can’t hold on to anything. It’s, it’s all letting go. … This life is all a letting go.’

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This emotional interview with the actor Andrew Garfield is a listener favorite. In it, Garfield talks about his 2024 film “We Live in Time,” in which he plays a newly divorced man named Tobias who falls in love with a chef named Almut, played by Florence Pugh. Their story feels epic and expansive, but still intimate. It focuses on the small, everyday moments that make up a love story: washing dishes together after a dinner party, sharing biscuits, smelling fruit at a farmers’ market. These are the moments that sustain the couple through Almut’s excruciatingly difficult medical crisis.

Garfield tells Anna Martin, host of “Modern Love,” why this film about the intertwined nature of joy and grief came into his life at just the right moment, and gives an unexpectedly raw reading of Chris Huntington’s essay “Learning to Measure Time in Love and Loss.”

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The actor speaks to Anna Martin, host of the Modern Love Podcast, about his movie “We Live in Time,” and why heartbreak is a path to vitality.CreditCredit...

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Credits

“Modern Love” is hosted by Anna Martin and produced by Reva Goldberg, Elisa Gutierrez, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Amy Pearl and Sara Curtis. The show is edited by Lynn Levy and Jen Poyant, our executive producer. The show is mixed by Daniel Ramirez and recorded by Maddy Masiello and Nick Pitman. It features original music by Pat McCusker, Elisheba Ittoop, Dan Powell, Marion Lozano, Carole Sabouraud, Aman Sahota, Chelsea Daniel, Sophia Lanman, Rowan Niemisto and Diane Wong. Our theme music is by Dan Powell.

Special thanks to Daniel Jones, Miya Lee, Larissa Anderson, Dahlia Haddad, Lisa Tobin, Isabella Anderson, Christine Nguyen, Reyna Desai, Jordan Cohen, Victoria Kim, Nina Lassam and Julia Simon.

Links to transcripts of episodes generally appear on these pages within a week.

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